Friday, March 13, 2015

About Yourself

Hey Ladies (and gents)! I hope you’re here because you believe you can be Hotter Than Porn and want to know how to make that happen. If you don’t, give this post a read, and return with any questions or concerns.

Today we’re going to be talking about you. I’m assuming you’re a woman in a heterosexual relationship. Don’t worry – if that’s not you, there will be stuff on the blog that will also apply to you. And this post might be kind of fun ;)

But before we talk about you, we have to talk about someone else.

Your Man

Think about your man. Think about what attracts you to him. Think about how he makes you feel. Do you love him? I hope you do. Both for your sake and the sake of your love life. Both of you deserve to be loved with no reservations. I’m going to tell you something about your man that you might not realize. Remember how much you love him? Cherish him? Well, this should have no impact on those feelings. You love the whole him.

Thursday, March 12, 2015

The Sex Talk

Whew! I’m glad you’re still with me. If you haven’t yet, I’d recommend reading my first post to see what the point of all this is. As porn becomes ever more mainstream, I wanted to provide a forum for people to talk and think about it. In particular, I want you to know that you are Hotter Than Porn, and aim to give you the tools necessary to become just that.

But before we get into the naughty details, we need to have a candid conversation about sex. I know, I know, it’s super awkward to talk about sex. Especially with a stranger over internet! And is this even a real conversation?

Sex is Core to the Human Experience

Talking about sex may feel inappropriate. Maybe you were taught that sex is bad, or dirty, or super private, and are scared by it. Maybe you’re religious, so you had to save yourself for marriage and put bad thoughts out of your mind. That’s perfectly fine; it makes you unique. But you know what? Sex isn’t bad. It doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, it’s wonderful. Sex a core part of being human.

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Why This Blog?

Welcome! I'm sure you're wondering what you're doing here, huh? Maybe a bit sheepish? Don't worry - everything and anything goes in this space.

No, this isn't a porn site. Well not really. I'll talk about porn. I'm not for-porn or anti-porn - it exists. Porn is part of the human sexual experience, and I believe that relegating it to the dark corners of the internet (which isn't really a corner anymore) causes more problems than it solves. So let's look at it. Let's not be afraid. Let's make our love lives better for it. Let's be Hotter Than Porn.